In love but parents opposed. Can astrology be the judge


Every couple wants to settle down in life and have a happy marriage. When couples are in love they have many dreams together, and life is a fairytale. However it is when this love needs to be converted into love marriage, that there are many obstacles which come in the way. Love is blind and in a love marriage or love relationship, the financial situation, personality, family status, all these don’t carry any importance. The couple only look at the chemistry that they share with each other and it is emotional bonding which is the most important thing – nothing else matters to a couple who are in love with each.
The real and most common problem faced by lovers is trying to get the family to agree to their relationship. This becomes a great strain, stress and anxiety levels rise for both the couple and also both their families.



Some of the most common issues with love relationships turning to marriage are as follows:

  • ü  Family opposition to the love affair
  • ü  Kundali incompatibility or love horoscope incompatibility (try kundali matching here)
  • ü  Lack of financial support
  • ü  Lack of supportive environment

One of the most common issues is family opposition to the love marriage.

Opposition to a love marriage can happen largely because of

  • ü  Parents not happy overall about the boy/girl choice
  • ü  Difference in state/caste/language/religion
  • ü  Difference in family financial status

Should I forget and break-up with my love because of family opposition? You can ask here Should I go for arranged marriage?

This is a very painful question to answer and the person has to take a critical decision – they have to choose between their individual happiness and the happiness of their parents. They cannot forsake both and they feel they need both. They don’t want to lose or anger both sides. What is the right approach?

Astrology can help to judge whether a love should be converted to love or not.

Even if parents oppose, Vedic astrology can predict of a marriage can be successful or not. Marriage astrology is the best answer for this confusing decision. An experienced and expert astrologer can immediately tell whether the love marriage will be a success or not.

Some of the guidelines used by astrology to see if love marriage or marriage matching for loveers will be successful is as follows:

  • ü  Malefic planet influence:Whenever there are malefic planets influencing the horoscope such as Rahu or Ketu there would be some bad results. In the case of love marriage if the lord of the 5th and the 7th houses form a relationship then love marriage is possible, but the aspect of Rahu and Ketu on this, is not at all good for the marriage. The marriage is sure to break up as a result of this.

  • ü  Kundali matching: The horoscope of both the lovers have to be checked to see if they can compensate the strengths and weaknesses in each other. If the 7th house representing wife/husband is in a strong position in both horoscopes, then it is a positive sign. The ashtakootgunamilan is also a measure of checking the compatibility of both the partners. If they score high on compatibility there will be no issues in marriage.

  • ü  Rashis must be friendly: The nakshatras and rashis are checked to see that they are friendly signs and not enemic in nature. If they are not friendly, there would be continuing fights and conflicts

In this manner, astrologers can definitely give an answer and be the judge as to whether

ü  It is fine to agree with parent’s decision and breakup the love affair, as it is not going to be a success as per astrology
ü  On the other hand if there are no negative effects of planets on love marriage yoga one should not give into any pressure, and can be ensured of a happy love marriage.

In both cases marriage astrology can provide guidance and judgement through consult an astrologer .

Location: Gurugram, Haryana, India

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