My wife doesn’t listen to me. How can astrology and counselling help in this matter.


One of the most commonplace issues in marriage is difference of opinion between the husband and wife. In most cases, this is considered healthy as each one is entitled to their own opinion. It is not always possible that two people should agree on everything. There can be differences of opinions, tastes, likes and dislikes and learning to live together happily inspite of all these differences does make for a happy marriage. However, in some marriages the issue of compatibility between husband and wife cannot be resolved so easily.
Many times, the husband feels that the wife does not listen to him at all in any matters. There could be many reasons for this
  • ü  Immaturity and lack of understanding on part of the wife or partner
  • ü  Difference in tastes/likes/upbringing
  • ü  Deeper mental or psychological issues
  • ü  Lack of trust and emotional bonding

When should I go for astrology and counselling?
You can go for marriage astrology counselling before or after marriage. However, it is always better to go much earlier than later if you face such problems in your relationship.

Marriage astrology is a very practical and ancient scientific approach by which all problems related to pre-marriage as well as post-marriage can be efficiently corrected.

At the time of marriage horoscope matching itself, a lot of issues – such as the strengths and weaknesses in the particular marriage can be predicted. In this way, both husband and wife are aware of each other’s nature and personality. This will help them to adjust themselves in the marriage. It is very important for the marriage horoscope to be matched or kundali matching to be done. This takes care of any red flags or very critical problems which can get highlighted by the astrologer before the marriage itself.

Marriage astrology reasons for wife not listening to spouse
  • ü  The 7th house of one’s horoscope represents marriage and partnerships. It reveals the nature of the partner also.
  • ü  Type of planet in the 7thhouse :The reason for your spouse’s personality is related to the type of planet in the 7th house. She will have the nature and character as influenced by that planet. For example, Venus in 7th house signifies that the wife loves luxuries and rich living. Mars in 7th house shows an aggressive and controlling spouse and so on.
  • ü  Negative planets cause personality disorders:The negative planets such as Shani, Rahu and Ketu cause the wife to display certain personality disorders. The astrologer would check the horoscope of the wife also to see whether it is a long-term or short-term problem, and the deeper reasons for it. For example, Venus in the 10th house gives a very demanding and controlling wife.
  • ü  Strength of Venus and combination with negative planets: Venus along with Rahu and Ketu in the horoscope gives many marital problems with spouse.



Can marriage astrology suggest remedies for issues with wife?

There are many remedies in vedic astrology for issues between husband and wife, and these can be taken care of at the right time. Each person is different, hence each person has a unique solution.
Marriage astrology Vedic solutions are in the form of:
  • ü  Performing daan, vrat as recommended
  • ü  Mantra Therapy to strengthen body-mind-soul and appease planets
  • ü  Gemstone Therapy to strengthen body-mind-soul and appease planets
  • However the best combination of tackling such problems is through astrology + counselling approach.
  • ü  Confidential counselling where a certified counsellor talks to both the husband and wife increases chances of saving the marriage
  • ü  Trust and emotional bonding is increased through open communication
  • ü  Many issues can be examined and discussed under guidance of a counsellor

Thus marriage astrology analysis through horoscope analysis and counselling is the best answer for marriage problems.

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