35 Years and Still Single, Can Astrology Tell the Way Out

If you are 35 years or above, and still single, you are no doubt feeling a certain sense of pressure from family and society to get married. The pressure may differ from one family setup to another. Most people who have broadminded outlook, and are no longer conservative, do not have a problem with late marriages. However, majority of the families do expect a decision around marriage to happen soon after a girl crosses 25 or a boy crosses 30. Anything further than this creates a sense of pressure and unnecessary tension, for the person and their families.

The reason that marriageable age goes beyond 35 in most cases is because marriage was never a priority. Sometimes, the person just wants to enjoy a carefree independent life and are not fully ready, others want to devote lot of commitment to career, men in general want to achieve a certain income and status before they feel ready for marriage. In all these cases, people do not feel ready.

However, there comes a point when they are ready and then further delay creates problems at a mental, physical and psychological level.

How can astrology tell the way out? Follow this 4 steps process

Confide in an astrologer – Draw your janam kundali: The number one thing one can do is get their horoscope evaluated thoroughly by a very experienced astrologer. The astrologer can draw up your janam kundali based on the details such as date, time and location of birth. This is the roadmap that can tell you what is destined to work out for you at a high level, regarding chances of marriage. This is the first level of help.

Get details on marriage from 7^th house: The 7^th house in the chart can tell you whether you can get married, how your marriage will be and the quality of your spouse as well. You can get all these high level details from a preliminary reading of the 7^th house.

Clock the timing of your marriage based on dashas: Along with your janam kundali, an astrologer also gives you the various planetary time periods that you will undergo in your lifetime. This again gives you a way of calculating timing if the marriage – whether the dasha is good or bad for marriage, if it will delay or bless you with marriage etc.

Give detailed picture of all aspects through Navamsa charts:The Navamsa charts allow the astrologers to make a more critical and clear decision regarding marriage. For example: If the janam kundali shows that you have Mars or mangal dosha, but the Navamsa chart shows that Mars is not having much power overall, then you do not feel the effects of it.

High-level guidelines for late marriage in astrology

1^st house of personality – The first house can give you a lot of details about who you truly are as a person. This house and its lord gives all your characteristics. Understand yourself first and then you can start compromising in order to get married. For example, your nature may be that you are too choosy, and this helps you to understand the reason for delay.

7^th house has malefic planets: If Venus or Jupiter are not favorable in your marriage horoscope, and you have the effects of planets such as Rahu, Ketu, Saturn etc., they will cause problems, and obstructions in your mental state, leading to delay in marriage.

Remedies/astrologer’s instructions can give a course correction: After analyzing which planets are causing the problems, and understanding which timeline or dasha is most favorable to get married, one can put one’s efforts in that timeline, and also enjoy peace of mind.

Results will be favorable if one puts one’s faith in astrology and also modifies one’s life and mindset after understanding where one is as per planetary position in life.